A given situation can be viewed as either unbearable or beneficial: it depends how we look at it. We must make certain that things don’t begin to seem unbearable. If we look too closely at problems we will see nothing else and they will appear out of proportion with reality; that is when they become intolerable. If we can stand back , we will be better able to judge them and they will seem less serious.

--Dalai Lama


fyi- Loral....I needed this. TYVM